When the awful threesome is not you, him and the ex; but you, him and his mom; you know you're in trouble honey!
Stop playing mom
He's popped the question and you've accepted. But the one thing that's worrying you is his devotion to his mother. While it's always a good sign that he treats his mom with love and respect, it's not good if he's still too attached to her. The best thing to do in such a situation is NOT to play mummy yourself. Don't become like her to make him want to notice you.
Plan another honeymoon
Whoever said second honeymoons are meant only to pep up the silver anniversary? Take our word for it and go on one again. When the focus is just on the two of you, he'll be reminded why he fell in love with you in the first place. Create beautiful memories that the two of you can laugh about even when you're back.
Strengthening that special husband-wife bond will go a long way in firming up his affection and respect for you.
Cook it up
So his mother is a good cook? Then you have to be fabulous. We're not asking you to start an unhealthy cooking competition with the mother-in-law; you just have to be better than her so that you can start killing him softly all over again. What say?
The best option is to sit him down and have a heart-to-heart about how much his taking his mother's side/ seeking her opinion on every decision you make as a couple hurts you. Make him see your side, he's sure to understand.
You have to show him how important you are to him, and that your ideas/views are just as sound as his mothers.
He's popped the question and you've accepted. But the one thing that's worrying you is his devotion to his mother. While it's always a good sign that he treats his mom with love and respect, it's not good if he's still too attached to her. The best thing to do in such a situation is NOT to play mummy yourself. Don't become like her to make him want to notice you.
Plan another honeymoon
Whoever said second honeymoons are meant only to pep up the silver anniversary? Take our word for it and go on one again. When the focus is just on the two of you, he'll be reminded why he fell in love with you in the first place. Create beautiful memories that the two of you can laugh about even when you're back.
Strengthening that special husband-wife bond will go a long way in firming up his affection and respect for you.
Cook it up
So his mother is a good cook? Then you have to be fabulous. We're not asking you to start an unhealthy cooking competition with the mother-in-law; you just have to be better than her so that you can start killing him softly all over again. What say?
Negligee power
Never underestimate the power of sexy lingerie. Show him what a sexy mama you are, and how good you are together.Have a chat
The best option is to sit him down and have a heart-to-heart about how much his taking his mother's side/ seeking her opinion on every decision you make as a couple hurts you. Make him see your side, he's sure to understand.
You have to show him how important you are to him, and that your ideas/views are just as sound as his mothers.
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